Age: 33
From: Warren, RI
Currently lives: Riverside, RI
Ok, so tell us about what makes you eligible. What are your interests/hobbies/quirks? What would people be surprised to know about you?
Let's talk about dating in Providence. What's your take on the singles scene here?
It's reflective of Rhode Island. Everyone seems to somehow know each other and that can be a good or bad thing but sometimes it feels too small. There are lots of cool, fun, affable people around but there's something nice about a degree of anonymity. I lived in Los Angeles for about a year and half before returning to RI for The Rhode Show position. Although I LOVE Rhode Island and Providence, there was something freeing about seemingly not knowing everyone or just being able to blend in a bit. It depends on who you are though. Some enjoy few degrees of separation, some do not. If you like that small town feel, then I guess Providence is ideal for you when it comes to dating.
Every single one of your married friends has probably recommended online dating. Have you tried it? How do you feel about matchmaking sites? Tinder?
I have in the past and I had a few nice dates as a result of a few of the services. Online dating can be a terrific way to help you find someone but you have to be careful, of course. Communicating online is a good way to get the ball rolling but I still prefer face to face interaction; it's really the only way you'll know if you click or if you realize you're seated across from someone you never want to see again in your life; it's happened to all of us. For those who have a hard time approaching someone cold, I'd definitely recommend cautious online dating. It can't hurt to give it a try; but if you meet someone crazy, don't blame it on me....
Overall I'm not opposed to these new methods. Obviously technology has changed the way we all live and if you can use it to your benefit, then great. Tinder sounds intriguing but also a bit odd. I have a feeling if I ever met anyone from it, they'd roll up in some type of conversion van and I'm convinced the experience would end with head scratching and a pile of regret...
Do you have any really funny dating stories?
I do but my lawyer has advised me not to share them in print...
Anything else you'd like people to know?
I enjoy kidding around because I feel laughter and humor are essential ingredients to life. It's quite easy to get stressed out about work, family life, dating, whatever, but a good laugh or chuckle - either intentional or unintentional - can really help to diffuse any situation especially when dating.
Honestly, I don't really worry or think about dating or meeting the right person all that often. If you're open to meeting new people, you'll most likely eventually find someone that is right for you. The best things usually happen when you're least expecting them to. So be open to everything. If you're single, be happy because it represents an open horizon of possibilities and experiences; the not knowing can be uplifting and powerful but also a bit frightening for some, I know. Just embrace it. I can't believe what I just said. I think I may now have a career in writing fortune cookies or a new Bon Jovi song...
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